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情商的六个检测尺度

2013-10-23 20:31:30| 分类：思考与学习 | 标签： |举报 |字号大中小订阅

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情商的六个检测尺度

1、看别人不顺眼，是自己的修养不够；

2、看自己不顺眼，是自己的修炼不够；

3、看朋友不顺眼，是自己的眼力不够；

4、看同事不顺眼，是自己的胸襟不够；

5、看下级不顺眼，是自己的定力不够；

6、看老板不顺眼，是自己的梦想不够。

情商的本质是融——融合、融洽、融入、融融。

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